Do I Actually Like Her?

About this test

A man wondering whether he likes a woman almost always has the answer somewhere, buried under layers of rationalisation: we're just good together, I don't want to ruin the friendship, I'll see how things go. That "I'll see" is usually a polite way of never deciding.

So these sixteen questions aren't about your intentions, they're about your reflexes. How quickly you spot her in a room. Where she sits in the order of calls when you get good news. What you agree to do for her on a Sunday. What your body does when she touches your arm. Intentions are negotiable; reflexes much less so, which is exactly why they make the better evidence.

The test won't tell you how to talk to her, and it makes no claim about what she feels — that's a separate question. It just puts a number on something you've been postponing, and hands the decision back to you.

How it works

Each answer is worth 0 to 4 points depending on how much genuine attraction, rather than plain comfort, it gives away. The total is scaled to 100 and compared with other participants. Your answers never leave your browser.